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Elliot Whitmore & Mara Okonkwo

14 June 2026 · Harare, Zimbabwe

Thank you for being part of our lives. Your presence at our wedding means more to us than anything on this list.

We have been filling our flat in Avondale piece by piece. If you would like to give a gift, we have gathered a few things we will genuinely use — and a few experiences we would love to share after the wedding.

With love, Elliot & Mara

For the flat

Home

Linen sheet set, king View gift →

White, washed linen — we prefer natural fibres.

Wool throw, oatmeal View gift →

For the sofa we found at the Avondale Fleamarket.

Ceramic table lamp, stoneware Reserve →

Bedside — something warm, not too bright. Hand-thrown, unglazed base.

Indoor herb pots (set of three) View gift →

Kitchen windowsill. Basil, thyme, rosemary.

Hand-woven bath towels, ecru (pair) View gift →

Guest bathroom — the one room we have not finished painting.

Oak picture frames (set of three) View gift →

For wedding prints and the photo of Mara’s grandmother’s kitchen.

Bookshelf for the hallway alcove View gift →

Narrow, floor-to-ceiling — the alcove is 68 cm wide exactly.

Reading chair fund Contribute →

We are hunting second-hand at Mbare Musika — help us reupholster whatever we find.

For the kitchen

Kitchen

Japanese chef's knife, 21 cm View gift →

Carbon steel — Elliot has been learning to sharpen on a whetstone.

Stoneware dinner plates (set of 8) Reserve →

Speckled grey, dishwasher-safe. We host six at the table comfortably.

Manual burr coffee grinder View gift →

Sunday morning ritual. We buy beans from a roaster in Workington when we can.

Wine glasses, six View gift →

We break them constantly. Simple tulip shape, nothing too tall.

Glass storage jars (set of six) View gift →

For rice, mealie meal, and the lentils we buy in bulk from the grocer at Sam Levy's Village.

To enjoy together

Experiences

  1. 01

    Cooking class at Amanzi

    Half-day market tour and lunch — we honeymoon at Victoria Falls in July.

    US$120
  2. 02

    Weekend at Troutbeck, Nyanga

    One night, dinner included. A pause before Elliot starts the new role.

    US$250
  3. 03

    Mukuvisi Woodlands annual pass

    For long walks with Mara's parents' dog, Chikafu.

    US$84
  4. 04

    Zambezi sunset cruise

    One evening on the river during the honeymoon — Elliot has never been upstream at dusk.

    US$95
  5. 05

    Pottery workshop, National Gallery

    Date night before the wedding. We want matching mugs that are intentionally mismatched.

    US$90
  6. 06

    Reps Theatre tickets

    We will pick the play together — Mara keeps a list on the fridge.

    US$110

Contribute to an experience →

Honeymoon

Honeymoon fund

We are spending two weeks at Victoria Falls and Mana Pools — a few booked activities and several days with no itinerary. If you would rather contribute to the trip than a physical gift, we would be grateful.

  • US$40 — Mosi-oa-Tunya park fees fund
  • US$75 — Helicopter flight over the Falls
  • US$100 — Dinner at the Boma
  • US$200 — Night at a lodge on the Zambezi
  • Any amount — thank you

Contribute →

In lieu of gifts

Charities

Island Hospice & Healthcare

Palliative care across Zimbabwe matters to both of us. Mara volunteered with their outreach team in university.

Donate to Island Hospice →

CAMFED Zimbabwe

Supporting girls to stay in school. Chosen in honour of Mara's mother, who taught Form 4 in Murehwa.

Donate to CAMFED →

Zimbabwe Red Cross Society

Emergency relief and community health. Elliot's family received food support during the 2020 lockdown — we have not forgotten.

Donate to ZRCS →